I am outsider, not a ne'er-do-well or a misfit, just someone who has found contentment on the outer edge. I can trace the heritage of this feeling to a convergence of experiences. I moved 3,000 miles -- from an enormous city to a small hamlet filled with people revered for never leaving -- all while 'coming of age.' It felt entirely disastrous. ____________________________ My parents laced their way from Orlando to Spokane through swamps, deserts, plains,…